.ehsOqYO6dxn_Pf9Dzwu37{margin-top:0;overflow:visible}._2pFdCpgBihIaYh9DSMWBIu{height:24px}._2pFdCpgBihIaYh9DSMWBIu.uMPgOFYlCc5uvpa2Lbteu{border-radius:2px}._2pFdCpgBihIaYh9DSMWBIu.uMPgOFYlCc5uvpa2Lbteu:focus,._2pFdCpgBihIaYh9DSMWBIu.uMPgOFYlCc5uvpa2Lbteu:hover{background-color:var(--newRedditTheme-navIconFaded10);outline:none}._38GxRFSqSC-Z2VLi5Xzkjy{color:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon)}._2DO72U0b_6CUw3msKGrnnT{border-top:none;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-metaText);cursor:pointer;padding:8px 16px 8px 8px;text-transform:none}._2DO72U0b_6CUw3msKGrnnT:hover{background-color:#0079d3;border:none;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-body);fill:var(--newCommunityTheme-body)} idky she expects you to pay for her ticket when everyone else has to pay for theirs. ._2Gt13AX94UlLxkluAMsZqP{background-position:50%;background-repeat:no-repeat;background-size:contain;position:relative;display:inline-block} AITA for setting this boundary with them and properly setting their expectations. His family and I don't have a super strong connection and that is because I don't spend much time around them. AITA For refusing to get my fianc a birthday present?, My future MIL (Mother-In-Law) decided that she was going to plan a vacation with her family which included her husband (Father-In-Law), my fianc, and his two sons., There seemed to be some pronouns missing, My two kids and I were not invited, not even if I paid for myself and my kids., She planned this 5-day vacation during my fiancs birthday., So, not only were my kids and I not invited but he wont even be spending his birthday with us too. We have sent an email to the address you provided with an activation link. DesignerMedium9046 51 10m. The parents decided to help out their daughter by giving her $10K for her dream wedding that she already spent half of while planning her big day celebration. It is also normal for guests to pay their travel and accommodation costs! Image credits: Ryan Polei (not the actual image). 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I can't talk about my 'lifestyle' because she doesn't want to . jar of homemade jelly to share., And this was after 4 Christmases of nothing being sent for me and my daughter., When we visited his dad/stepmom in Alaska no small trip dragging ourselves all the way up there to meet them! Dec. 21, 2020. ye hq uo. I would not marry this man., Yeah the silence from him is alarmingly loud. L_Moo_S 27 min. Unsure of what OP should do, they reached out to Reddit for wisdom. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: Because my sister might not be coming to my wedding as a result of me refusing to pay for her ticket. He is an avid roleplayer and storyteller occasionally masquerading as a rational human. In my free time, I love going to art galleries, exhibitions, concerts or just hanging out in nature with my friends. Ive never been invited to wedding that included travel expenses. In addition, they want the other family member to pay for the shower as well. .s5ap8yh1b4ZfwxvHizW3f{color:var(--newCommunityTheme-metaText);padding-top:5px}.s5ap8yh1b4ZfwxvHizW3f._19JhaP1slDQqu2XgT3vVS0{color:#ea0027} A lot of users online agreed with the man, stating that she isnt entitled to this money, its seen more as the parents generous offer. I am 20 years old. However the amount of money that went down the drain after the postponement is insane especially in this financial climate. But they are not assholes if they won't come as a result. Therefore, whenever we need to pay for something, I pay 67% of it, and she's paying the remaining 33%. 787 top end rebuild; can you. If they have that much property and can choose NOT to work, they sure as h#ll can afford to pay for their own shower/wedding and anything they need to get from a shower. 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A few months ago we said to our family and friends that only a few select people will be making speeches, and giving them a fairly strict time limit. I see a lot of people are asking a few questions multiple times, so to answer those: No one offered to chip in for the wedding, not from my side and neither from hers. This page may contain sensitive or adult content that's not for everyone. 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When it comes to weddings, the question of how much of the financial burden should be put on the parents of the bride or groom can be a tricky one. Konstancija is a Content Creator at Bored Panda. 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My fiance ( 23M) and I (23 F) are getting married in less than a month. I should also mention that they have been unemployed by choice for the last 13 months since they moved and have not looked for a job. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Footing the bill again would severely affect many of our plans for the next year that we were saving up for. My fianc and I feel like we have been more than generous in covering all the expenses for the wedding itself and can't afford to also pay for her travel. I highlighted that I'd prefer we'd invite only family and friends that we're actively communicating and going out with, that I'd rather spend that precious time with people I care most for, rather than being split around tables having to entertain people I rarely even talk to. Judgement_Bot_AITA 1 min. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. ago Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. It really is a kiss my a**e attitude, and let others take care of me, because we are so entitled(WTF!) Do not discuss anything about wedding planning with your p. Plan this thing with your fianc. most of the time the parents foot the bill for the whole wedding. ._2cHgYGbfV9EZMSThqLt2tx{margin-bottom:16px;border-radius:4px}._3Q7WCNdCi77r0_CKPoDSFY{width:75%;height:24px}._2wgLWvNKnhoJX3DUVT_3F-,._3Q7WCNdCi77r0_CKPoDSFY{background:var(--newCommunityTheme-field);background-size:200%;margin-bottom:16px;border-radius:4px}._2wgLWvNKnhoJX3DUVT_3F-{width:100%;height:46px} in my culture, the guests provide for their own travel expenses, accomodation etc.. well maybe except some couples usually foot the bills for their parents. If the planning would have ended with me having more guests than she would've had, then I would've willingly covered entirely the cost of the extra guests coming from my side. We loved her since the first day we met her. "To preface this, we only got engaged about 10 weeks ago and have plans for November 2021, but if there's still issues at the time we'll postpone." After it's AITA for not getting along with my sister in law? We will not publish or share your email address in any way. All the guests and family are on your side. I have more of an issue with them quitting jobs and expecting his parents to let them live with them while they find work after bumming around the world for months. Yeah, that's a really weird plan. Please provide your email address and we will send your password shortly. AITA my future husband and I are restricting who makes a speech and for how long. Frank Geier (pronouns he/him) is a nerd and father of three who recently moved to Alabama. If you've ever planned a wedding, you'll know the struggle of having to decide who gets invited, who gets to be a groomsman or a bridesmaid, who is just there for the ceremony and whatnot. Therefore, from my side, I'd be having about 35 guests. There are so many views that I haven't even considered and you are all right in your own way. The father revealed that their family had an agreement that the parents would give their children each $10K to be spent on the wedding or a down payment on their first home. After many years working in the service industry, in many different States, there is one thing a lot of people don't realize. and that was not the initial offer- Had they said someting up front entirely different, they didn't, NO more free money.). I have attended numerous wedding, sometimes far away, I always paid for it. cf; pf . She kinda agrees with it being a small wedding, though, she'd like to invite family members with which she hasn't even spoken in years (to quote her: "they're still family overall, it's not nice"). By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. There is one topic that I see mentioned a lot, that being the 67/33 part. It is actually just normal to pay for your own wedding costs. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: My mother thinks I'm being an asshole because I don't want her to bring one of her friends to my wedding. We went to two out of state weddings in less than 6 months. Besides that, her parents want to also invite their own friends and work colleagues, which we've never met. CareyHope/Getty Images. My dream is to get an RV and travel around the world with my dog. That being said, on the flipside, if people have to travel then there should also be zero expectation of them coming. My husband (32) and I (26) have been married for nearly 6 months. Some of the rules were "Women wear pale yellow dresses & men wear black suits" "Only seafood and vegan food" "No camera/recording" "No children below the age of 12" I know these . Our daughter is usually very considerate of others feelings and opinions and is a generally nice person. The planning and arrangements can take their toll on anyone. 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Press J to jump to the feed. They've only got themselves to blame. An absolute blast. Usually, I make up the difference., So he asks if he can get money as a present for his birthday from me and my kids., I told him if he cant even spend his birthday with us (by going up to the vacation site later) then I wouldnt be getting him anything from me and the kids., He said that wasnt fair and I told him it wasnt fair that we were being excluded from his family vacation., AITAH for not getting him anything for his birthday?. When someone does this, it's time to pick up the phone. Read this._3K2ydhts9_ES4s9UpcXqBi{display:block;padding:0 16px;width:100%} I have regretfully declined weddings I couldn't afford to attend. Sounds like someone who doesn't plan ahead. The specialists revealed that this is not a very common occurrence, adding: The more common scenario is for couples to completely change their minds before the actual planning starts. Sounds complicated? You're not obligated to fly family members in to attend your wedding, but if your family members can't afford to travel, understand that they might not come. Start writing! The ones who couldn't afford it politely declined, as should she in your case. 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